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Saturday, October 20, 2012

IS IT POSSIBLE TO BE 100% HONEST IN RELATIONSHIP

The definition of honesty is, honesty one of the good qualities. An honest behavior means a behavior which is free from cheat and deceit. Honesty is based on truthfulness. It is free from all kinds of evil motive. Honesty is a great attitude that we need to always keep in our daily life. Everyone most like to honest person. Honesty is a important attitude for us to value how nice a person. In my opinion, it is impossible to be 100% honest in relationship. This statement for me impossible to be 100% honest with everyone.

First and most important, in our daily life, sometime we need to keep a thing in our own. Some of our life problem, we need to share with others and sometime we need to keep it by own. Clearly, we also can't to be 100% honest with our own self. So in that situation, how your can be fully 100% honest with others? Actually we cannot fully 100% honest in relationship. It is because, the way of every relationship being very differences. The honest in family you will present with different way with the honest in relationship between friendships, couples and others. For example, you can't be honest just for maintain or save a good relationship with others. This is very clearly you always practice it in friendship. If you become close with someone, even they do the bad things, you can't to avoid them with clear method. This is because you feel worry because of that enlighten your relationship become worse.

In addition too, it is impossible to be 100% honest because, in our life you will not share everything. As an example if you have a private story which can make you will shame. Will you share it with others? Surely you will not right? So this is one kind of non-honest situation. Clearly, nowadays a married couple. If they get a relationship problem, will they share to public? I mean everyone who's want to get know about their problem. They will not. They will always give respond which is state there is nothing with both of them. So that's clearly non-polite situation.

In addition too, as an example as a teenagers, will you share all of your campus life with your parent or family? I'm sure you will not. As usual, a teenager more interesting to have fun and get entertainment. Sometimes they will spend their time to get fun. They will go to cinema, karaoke, ramble around and others. If you spend a lot of time for that thing, do you thing your parent will give permission to you? I'm surely not. In comfort situation you will lie to your parent. That's show non-honest situation. Your parent send you to school or higher education to get knowledge. But sometime, you spend your time to wrong place without any information to your parent. 

Honesty is a virtue. If all people become honest, then our society will be an ideal society. The students should try to become honest in their day-to-day life. Because the students are the future of the country. Hence, they are expected to build an honest society for themselves and to leave a tradition of honesty for their future generation. In nutshell, it is really hard to be 100% become honest person. However, you had to try to do it. Be honest also have a different way in each situation. If you ask to be honest on a thing, be a honest person. If the situation lie is better then honest, you need to do as how as most suitable.

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